aei (oh, You)

Oh, people. Oh, men!

Let me shake your oval hands.

Your egg-shaped grips, frictionless tips

swallow my own the way

snakes do.

 

Consonants!

&

UPPERCASE!

 

shouts inside a mouth clamped shut

 

HARD!

like iron-enriched shit

SHARP!

like stickers in tall grass

But

 

their egg-shaped hands are also flat.

With every stupid attempt made

to present my odd water,

their palms redden slapping it and I

wonder where You are.

 

You, who sucks at telling jokes.

You, who forgets his own work.

You are soft and rounded vowel sounds, love

 

everything about you feels like wooden bowls

autumnly stained.

Best By

It doesn't matter much -

the love or lack of it.

The sun decides, every day, to sleep in,

and in the night/abrupt/aborted morning,

I think of you standing over its bed

with something like sadness

and a knife in your hand.

 

It doesn't matter much -

but maybe it does.

 

When love speaks, I feel pictures.

When love speaks, I hear colors.

When love speaks, I taste textures.

When you speak, I check under

the Box

 

(for an expiration

date)

 

And say what you will about the milking of feelings,

but after all these years, your words have not curdled,

and there are few things that matter more to me

than that.

Softer

I never feel more like a middle child

than when I read love poems 

about girls 

with long dark hair

 

boys with poison darts inside the 

wilderness of their

tongues

 

children who exist from start to finish

children who remember the flavor of cake

children who don't understand how Jesus 

could forget a perfect thing like

growing up

 

I feel caught in between

my natures.

 

The writer in me wants to read every poem

and underline each hidden Mickey.

 

The girl in me wants to read the same poems

but she cries when they're not about

her.

The Heisman

Loving you here is safest. 

And by here, I mean HERE

where the words cast themselves 

like stinkbait 

for lonely 

bologna 

 

catfish

 

and we swarm so earnestly,

never seeing the others

only seeing each other

 

and that is stupid

and safe

and expected

 

here.

 

Loving you there is hard.

And by there, I mean everywhere not HERE.

There, where I remark the softness of your face.

The niceness of your eyelashes

and the queer uselessness of having them.

Where your football-shaped head makes me want to tuck it

under my arm and run with the other arm

stiff

out.

 

But There is a bear trap

clamped on the dick of mankind.

And for all the s(t)inkholes

and perils of 

loving strangers

 

nobody actually hurts themselves

Here.

 

Bags for Hands

Useless superpower #1 - 

I can usually spot the funny

in most anything.

 

I begged my best friend to hold on, tonight.

I spread my arms out like the Jesus

he only 3/4 believes in

and wanted to die

in his place.

 

But I didn't.

And neither did he.

Nothing is guaranteed.

And there's nothing funny about that.

 

But.

In a macabre way

it is fucking hilarious

to be unafraid of Death,

but moreso,

the fast galloping horse he rides in on.

Wrench

From across the lawn, I see a mother and children

two...three....four of em,

and they are throwing rocks in the water

and she is smiling so hard

I can feel her warmth from inside 

the building. 

 

Life is simple, I think,

watching the oldest help the youngest

get a good handful

and throw at the top of the arch

for better distance.

 

Life is so goddamned simple, I remark,

as the mother digs in her bag

and produces crackers and juice

for the lot of them.

 

The children sit around her, 

still smiling,

eat their crackers,

drink their juice.

 

And I wonder where their father must be.

 

At work, maybe.

In whatsherfuck's office.

Rubbing his temples as she serves him

black coffee.

Uncrosses her legs.

His wife is so distant.

So cold to his

stupid man

needs.

 

The little ones climb in the water now.

I'll have to drag myself out there

and kindly ask them to come out.

 

I grit my teeth for their father,

who may be dead for all I know.

All I know is that he complicates

everything.

Hahan't

I have a habit of staring at people's mouths when they talk.

It's not that I'm uninterested in what they have to say,

it's just

 

most people don't know that the mouth and hands

are linked.

 

I'm more interested

in the puppetry.

 

"It's when something is supposed to be funny, but isn't"

 

Her mouth is fit for nuclear codes.

Accordingly, her hands move

very little.

 

Her face reminds me of waking up.

That very first moment, before your eyes adjust

and everything is warm,

emotionless,

and beautiful.

 

She tells me of her situation

and I feel happy to be un-in love.

I tell her that I've decided that I 

don't love 

nobody.

 

I say I ain't cooin' for Not 

nobody Not 

no more

 

and I Swear I Don't

feel 

 

Nothin'. 

 

And she doesn't have to say it.

I can see it in the way

the corners of her mouth

tug at the politeness 

of her fingers.

 

So I'll say it for her - 

 

Love is most definitely a joke,

I'm just not sure which parts I'm supposed to

not laugh at anymore.

Shelter Structure

Observe the broadness of my shoulders.

My tusks - sturdy 

samurai swords.

 

Observe the thickness of my skin.

The weight of this state

panting hot,

never glad,

 

wanting more.

 

May we not forget my largeness.

Forgetting's not a thing

I do.

 

When I picture you are hurting,

I picture wild, sharp toothed things.

You are something like my son

in that I picture you

 

too soft.

 

Too small to see over cluttered

 

countertops.

 

And I plant my feet n'

lower my head.

I square my tusks 

and trumpet my trunk that 

 

whatever believes it will stand in the after

has obviously never seen what I do to 

young bulls.

 

I understand all-too-well

what possesses you.

 

And though I don't believe you're Satan

I wish to God you'd get

behind me.

His father says I should stop carrying him. And that's why he's not around. 

My son, sturdy barrel boy,

raises the ladder on his plastic

firetruck

and snaps the thing

clean off.

 

He sits for a moment.

Confused by his power.

Confused by new futures.

Confused by the fact that the ladder did not scream.

It gave no warning.

It was fine until it 

 

wasn't.

 

It was fine until it

snapped.

 

My son, trembling boulder,

cries a cry so goddamn sorry

that it breaks my heart, 

every heart I ever had,

going back

several years

before his cry was even

born.

 

I reach for him.

He reaches back.

With a burning left shoulder

I hold him in my arms.

He buries his chin in the shoulder that suddenly

feels an awful lot like that plastic

ladder.

 

I hold him because I love him.

My shoulder burns, and I love him.

He digs his chin and it hurts

somethin' terrible.

But I hold him tighter

and remind him

 

I am magic.

 

Like my mother is.

Like her mother was.

 

His sadness melts into a sleepy soup.

I lay him down and kiss his forehead goodnight.

He curls his body against mine.

His breathing is deep. Calm. Even.

 

And I wish this power worked on everyone.

 

I've never tried.

 

Hell.

 

It might.

'You cannot begin in past tense and suddenly switch to present' Or so everyone keeps telling me.

We watched New York's fireworks on TV.

My son, closest thing to what I imagine 

pyrotechnicians envision in their

sleep,

 

allowed himself to love once more

a thing that would not attend

his birthday.

 

"Woooowwww"

"So so pretty!"

"Here comes another one!"

 

Across town, his father sends emojis.

Tears and frowny faces for those of us surviving;

brokenhearted illustrations for us enduring his

Pretend Death.

 

Takes a bite of mustard muffin.

Takes a swig of piss-warm beer.

 

Says he's sorry for the way things have to be.

And that's a mighty fine sentiment

for a pretend dead man to have.

 

As the finale begins, I wonder if sweetie

has made any connections between the fireworks

and the flowers I routinely bring home,

the flowers he observes long enough to state color

then smashes with such intensity

that the flurry of screaming petals look like

TV with poor reception.

 

I tell myself to write about it later.

Everyone is writing poetry tonight.

I feel combustible and pretty

and I only want to die

(a) little.

when I pretend you're nothing special

Broken sex notwithstanding, 

I covet your nearness, reader.

I confide in nobody else but you

because you wear many faces

and each face mirrors my own.

 

In another life, we could have danced

under Monet's weeping willows/

skipped rocks over ponds,

stirred the sleep of water lilies. 

 

In another time, you may have moved

your studio beside mine.

We may have criticized each other's work,

fought nurses for limiting visitations to

immediate families 

only.

 

In another life, I could have looked you in the eyes 

and mouthed the words

 

(I)

and

(love)

and

(you)

 

and you could have kissed me for all the inside jokes

we'd share on our misavettsures.

You're never going to get famous writing about the same guy, Brit

Lap steels remind me of feelings.

Fluid and pulling.

Your voice reminds me of water

cutting canyons in the East.

Or sometimes pinching clay,

not the look but the feel of it.

Yellow. I don't know why.

Sometimes tan. 

Sometimes I see words

generally understood to mean

"middle".

 

It could also remind me of a belt 

swinging in a menacing breeze.

Or sometimes a thing that fits in my hands

that I bring to my eyes

and understand.

 

Your face is like something

given apprehensively for

safe keeping.

 

I watch nuclear events from start to finish

in your eyes. 

 

And there is suffering unlike anything I've ever known.

 

And still.

I risk rotting limbs

to be near you.

'At least I'm not drinking'

It is a feather falling,

yellows and purples alongside deep bluey hues,

the coolness of dark hardwood floors, 

the static of silence amplified by 

expectations. 

 

It is a thing that weaves,

a cursive word,

continuous,

it is a drink I lack the heart to pour 

 

out. 

 

It is here and it is now, 

love's last words

fading

from my ears. 

 

It is an obligation to perform CPR. 

 

A declaration with no belief in itself.

Sunka Punched

I dedicate entire days to loving you.

From a distance, without sound,

while your heart does what your heart must

to protect itself from

words like these.

 

And it's not a needy love, in fact,

if you never spoke to me again,

if you never read another word,

this love would get along just fine

declaring itself

again and again.

 

I love you.

God, 

how I love you.

 

And it's not terminal but I'll die 

doing it.

 

'n if there's a way to do it after

then I'd like to do that

too.

What Matters

In another life, 

Robert and I might have worked.

'n by 'worked', I mean we might have gotten drunk

and written down all the things that hurt

us,

then blown them to, say,

smithereens

before making love 

intimately aware

that measurable time is 

just for fun,

made-up as the scar I'm imagining on his

chest.

 

In another life, we might have been

scientists/psychologists/

well-dressed not-quite-nihilists

prepared for curtain

drop.

 

But here, in this life, I listen to

every word he has to say.

 

And it's interesting, you know.

That a guy like him,

so at home in his cosmic

homelessness, is

married.

That a guy who does not think

but Knows,

that every vessel, no matter the size,

is               sinking

 

 

      sinking

 

 

sinking

 

still finds love

worth having and

worthwhile.

 

He knows better than

Anyone

 

that if there is a God

He's long moved on 

and forgotten all about

this rock

 

yet still,

he sees something else

when he looks at his wife.

 

Something beautiful

circling the same drain.

 

It's a pleasing thing to watch him swoon.

 

I still have much to learn. 

Hot and Bothered

Often,

I come back to Robert's

black holes.

 

He showed me once

and it's worked well ever 

since

 

see,

 

I get to thinkin' about my son

and how much he likes to wrestle.

I get to thinkin' about how old I feel

and how useless fat is

if it won't absorb elbows.

 

I get to thinkin' about my Womanly Shelf Life

and I start grittin' my teeth at the fact that

ex-husband doesn't have one.

 

And the solution seems simple - 

lose the weight and smile more.

 

But Robert's thing is simpler - 

the only thing in this goddamned universe

that takes light with it when it goes

is supermassive

and vacuous

 

and could not, even through the blurriest lens,

resemble anything as useless

as men.

 

Besides,

I'm way past needin' to be consumed.

My son's elbows are gettin' larger

and gettin' hot's a bother.

Left-Right

A face fresh from crying

feels the way wet cardboard

smells.

 

It feels like stretched plastic.

It feels like

 

broken spines - 

 

the impolite way my sister holds what she is

reading?

 

Peeled back like a blouse

too small for the head inside it.

 

It feels like

the pantomime

one might make to part the

sea.

 

Now that I've explained

this left-right smear upon my face,

feel free to tell me I'm

 

beautiful

 

or whatever it is

you men think you

ought to

 

think. 

And I realized at that moment that I wasn't ready to date just yet. 

They're like dogs, I say

No really, I mean

 

They're like teething puppies

and we are the fingers

 

tickling their coffee

chops

 

that careful chew

that nothing nibble

letting you know it's all in good

fun

 

and no one can explain it;

no one spots the change

 

but at some point they forget you and they start using their 

back teeth.

 

And he nods and sips and shakes his head

and I imagine 

a nervous circus of fleas 

dancing on his

ears.

Steak Puns

Loving you is a birthday party

that everyone drops everything to come to.

 

Loving you is a star-studded cast

with all my favorite faces

saying all my favorite things. 

 

Loving you is a snow day in August

in Texas

on Monday

(when I'm especially hung-

over)

 

Loving you is that dream I have

where I'm skinny and pretty and fucking

Mark Wahlberg. 

 

And I never wake up.

And it never stops snowing.

And you are kind enough to rewind yourself 

at the start of every

party.

pleasing myself isn't allowed in public

I sit here at a grand piano,

borrowed and blue,

shapely like sunglasses

 

I listen to a melody

once,

twice, 

got it now

 

I see the shape and apply it to

a guitar that I'm not even holding

 

and I know it

now

I know it

and

 

I finish there to tell you here

that I have it now;

I'm a quick study

 

and now I'm here

shapely and quick

 

and all I can really think about 

is the fact that he left us

 

anyway.

Devil Bird

you do not hold me,

buzzard boy

 

you do not hold me any

more

 

your arms are hyperlapsed headlights

on a rural two-lane road

 

don't look like much, but when sped up?

you dance, vulture

you dance!

 

you do not hold me,

devil bird

 

you bastard wolf in bastard sheep's

clothing

 

and you're afraid, you say, 

afraid that you've 

become something even 

You

 

hate

 

but I see you, crow,

on your little pedestal

fearlessly spinning

paper

plates.

As it stands, 

I flick the loops in cursive 'love'

with the smooth part of my 

sunburned tongue

 

love comes too soon,

slyly remarks "a shudder in the hand is worth

two shivers in the

bush"

 

and I cannot stand the sight of it

 

so pleased with half-circle (e)

motions

 

when it sleeps in that dumb

curled cat way,

I roll out of bed and bathe myself

 

in dull refrigerator 

light.

00:00 (give or take)

it is nearly midnight 

 

there are rubber fingers in my ears

and I am reminded, sweetly, of a love

that I'm no longer

in

 

but oh

when I was in it!

 

the expressed bag of mother 

cows

the inner ears of newborn 

pigs

pinched elbow skin

relaxed and

warm

 

such was our hidden

softness

 

when the good most got the knuckles, wander-

-love, you got the palm

 

open

cupped

&

gathering

 

everything, love

everything.

 

 

 

it is after midnight now.

 

you are somewhere far

in the pantie drawer

of a nothing city

in a nowhere state

 

and that's not much different from how it was, except

these days, I think

you like it

 

there.

You There

This polar vortex is killing them

up North, but here

it's almost warm

 

it doesn't do much good since I'm

too fat to skip the jacket, but

 

I imagine you,

great toothed thing,

nestled inside your

steely dam

 

a beast within a motherfucker

 

here and there

(not Here, but

There)

 

and outside the wind whips 

violently

 

it stirs until the air fluffs up

and casts white peaks off

winter whisks 

 

you are There with Eyes Alive, love!

 

and I am Here

with windows down

wishing I had some clothes that

fit.

Over Moon

If you want to know the truth, you giant

finger wagging

(adverb here)

 

these gross affairs mean nothing to me;

they could shrivel up inside themselves 

and it wouldn't even hurt to

sit

 

the Truth is that I miss the joy

of waiting for the buzz of love

or chime or ring or

traded drink

 

that Out Loud love, that homo stuff

that Visible from Space shit

love

 

and this heart that I insist on keeping

pumping blood and taking

beatings

 

it misses it so goddamned bad

and shuts its eyes so tight, I think

 

it'll be real quick to forget

all this sex shit

when love comes back.

Under Table

Heaving hot and insecure

I stitch the letter to my neck

and ask the man, dumb runaway,

to please work around it.

 

He is thinner than the towel used

to wipe away our grief. 

"may as well" and "we might die"

expel in thick white

sheets 

 

It is - 

useless

useless

useless

 

I feel - 

stupid

stupid

stupid 

 

Don't I value -

what? love?

 

is that what drives these goddamned dogs

to rage against their

Tungsten cones?

 

It's not all them.

A man once fed my child mouth

with food from his

hand

 

and ever since, I guess I just

prefer the under

table.

Without Lips

He kisses like it's 

personal, like

some girl back in

middle school

should Really see

how far he's Come,

like all those times

he slept alone

too bored to let his hands slide down,

 

it's something he can Laugh At

now.

 

His forward movement

looks like movies,

sounds like mice on

Mouse Prom Night,

he kisses hard and without lips, I think

'why wait someday to laugh at This?'

 

I think I'll laugh

right now.

Questions? Problems? Needs?

"Are you really needy?" the chatbox chirps

 

he is 39 and "so done with the bullshit"

wants to know my 30 year old views on

polyamory and 

marijuana. 

 

He has a cornucopic face with a cotton 

candy brain, but

I cradle his question in my mouth

and look him straight in the eyes,

 

I've never considered myself

needy/needing/

having things that resemble

Needs

 

but,

 

in broad daylight, my feelings turn

often

always

ever only

 

toward the heart of an about-half man

 

and the distance gets his better half

(the soft middle scoop

not the hardened sides)

 

and I get, I'm told,

the other half

 

the about-half of that moment when

Bradley Cooper hangs

himself

 

And I think Surely that's a bit

dramatic, SURELY

 

we could make this

work

 

 

then I realize 39 unmatched me

somewhere in all of that

 

but it's just as well,

I'm too old for weed

 

and I'm incredibly fucking

needy.

Commissioned Commitment

Blair, the landscape painter,

the spinning dryer we all agree we'd 

take a ride on

stands up straight and speaks four

simple words

 

Inspiration

Is For

Amateurs

 

You gotta get up each day and just

Do It, he frowns

 

I'm a good listener; I know what he means.

He MEANS that his wife, the one he never talks about,

the one who told him his paintings weren't paying

the bills,

he MEANS that she and he 

share a passion for

 

unasking

deathparting

professionalism.

Death by Wagon

I have been asked to respect the privacy of the 

dying, respect 

the dumb wishes of the already

dead

 

so I'll do you one better, you

gasoline carcass

 

you sea-drinking, soup-stealing

all-loathing 

stiff

 

you liar, you LIAR

you glassy-eyed bozo, you

insult to every glad

lad on the street

 

I'll not write another damn word

about you.

I'll snuff out your surname

from the County Clerk's 

book.

 

And the words already written?

Words like wanting and loving and

having and holding and

dreaming and feeling your body

press down?

 

With respect to your corpse, sir,

I may as well tell you,

that they were never about You

anyhow.

I Missed You

I missed you 

 

by 

 

twenty minutes 

today

 

and for twelve years before 

that.

Yeast Affection

I am occasionally sobered

by the beauty of

men.

 

So often, I'm drunk with 

hating their guts but

these leavened reminders

keep me puffy at 

heart.

 

Oh rising shoulders!

Oh kneading palms!

 

You are shaped like a thing that dispenses

cracked pepper.

Your heart is a tire

swinging free in your

chest.

 

Thumb and forefinger roll 

Beads Off the 

necklace.

 

Soft flex of forearm grinds

bones into

bread.

Perfect. Perfect. Perfect.

Why don't I ever write about my son?

 

Is it that I suck at writing

happy things

in the way you mopes 

prefer?

 

These plain words never do it

for you...

Happy. Silly. Smart.

Handsome. Loving. Growing.

Perfect. Perfect. Perfect.

 

Maybe.

 

I thinks it's more you're

all so steeped in

loathing, you're

all so drunk with

wanting, and 

 

by you, I mean we, I guess

I never much agreed with bringing

 

kids into the bar.

Under the Sun

I don't know why, exactly

 

could be the exhaustion

mixed with clear stuff,

the layer of gasoline 

floating atop my son's 

stolen (borrowed)

grape juice

 

could be the percussive beating

my ears have taken

the feedback shriek

chattering my tee

th

 

could be the fact that this makes

number five fo(u)r

you

 

but 

 

the idea of cutting off

a perfectly good 

ear

 

for something as

common

as 

nothing

as 

love

 

you may as well chain yourself

to roaches; you May as well

die for

men's rights

For my husband, my panic attack this morning.

Husband,

 

I want to forget about

 

space

expanding

 

ever-wide

and without

end

 

 

about the fact that we are

pocket lint

in a universe dressed 

for the

arcade

 

 

about the shape with which all things,

ALL things, 

may or may not

identify

 

about the center 

ever reaching

never touching

only seeing

 

to it that we never

get there

 

Love,

 

I'd much rather occupy myself

with the science of your

perfect lips.

 

The way that they

articulate

whatever silly, sudden

thing

 

the way they make up for

lost time, the way

they too

expand

around the doubt

 

black holes, you might

could call them, those

times I get to thinking we

are the sum of our

coalescing 

parts

 

I'd like to Stop thinking about

life

and time

and the fact that light

bends 

but rarely seems to

break

 

I'd much rather prove

that bending light

is only half as great

as biting

lip.

Reader? Eater?

Are you bored yet of my

gnawing

longing?

 

My blushed exhale of

hungry

hot air?

 

I forget that it's there,

peeling back my smooth wood finish.

Not until I scrape my belly

waiting for the next big thing

do I remember that I've been waiting

an awfully

long time.

 

And for what, I've never known.

It is my mother's way

of cooking.

 

I try and I get close

but it's always missing

something.

Belly Drum

I'll meet you halfway, Square Tooth.

 

I am crawling under 

white wine spheres

 

and slapping my belly

purposefully

 

to a song I hadn't heard in

years.

 

There is nothing special about attraction, kid.

 

It merely adds an

unplugged smile

 

to the beat

 

the beat

 

the beat...

Square Tooth

I'm not saying that you ought to feel PROUD,

Square Tooth...

 

I'm just saying 

that I've been writing

 

poetry

 

since I was

six.

 

And in twenty

four years,

I've only written 

 

multiple poems 

 

about 4 other 

guys.

 

So.

 

This being your fourth and all.

 

Maybe 

 

stand up a little

 

straighter.

And this is what it looks like when I act like a tough guy

Somebody mentioned that I might miss

the closeness.

Warmth. Touch. Intimacy.

 

Everything I couldn't wait to skip past

as I drew up plays to advance

the runners.

 

I've never been very sentimental, see.

So the idea that I might simply be missing

earlobes,

necks,

noses.

Fuck.

 

It irks me, man.

Like spoken confessions

when kisses will do.

 

Just before I sat down to write this,

I brought myself to orgasm

four times.

And I called out the name of a man

I haven't wanted

in a very long time.

 

He was an okay lay and all.

Liked to watch and listen.

Mostly listen.

And those fuckin' eyes, I tell you.

Like pearly pleas inside a rosewood 

cabinet.

 

Writing this now,

with the trail of empty satisfaction

glossing the right half of my

keyboard.

 

I don't know.

 

Maybe I should call him.

Women

I've never understood my knack

for attracting beautiful women.

What compelling force,

what pressing

Need

drives them to want to harness me.

I mean,

I can see how they'd think

they thought they smelled 

smoke;

their lips pound sand softly when they speak

a most pleasing and subtle sensation of earth

shifting 

ever so,

wet and imprintable, 

made smooth by the rising tongue-

tide

their bodies like fresh bread

and cool stones and

red wine

thick hair that tucks nicely into fists, hips

like little T levers - pull down!

......


and I have and while 

sprinklers and Sirens soaked me

proper,

I sort of need sticks to make

fire.

Spumante

I don't know what it is about

alcohol

that makes sidewalk chalk - 

bathed in orange moonlight,

sexier than the spiders 

eyeing 

the box.

Dignity in the stillness, I suppose.

Chiseled tips. 

Soft grips.

Insistent.

The box doubles over,

seems sick and heartbroken.

The gecko waves the spider

waves the worm waves the 

lonesome. 

It must Surely be the case for everyone

that alcohol makes them long for

20

21

23

27

20fucking9. 

I'll tell you another thing about 

sidewalk

chalk,

there are 28 different 

milky colors,

and not One

seems fitting of a tight-lipped kiss.

Not ONE comes close to coloring

the expectation of sweetness

replaced with long sighs.


If I Had to put a label on it,

I'd say loneliness most closely resembles

two cursive words

and a dumb, fucking bird.

This is how we memorize dinosaurs A to Z

Out of love is easy.

I've memorized 26 dinosaur species - 

one for each letter of the alphabet.

Apatosaurus. 

Women are thin, well-manicured nails

and I am the gum under

the shipping desk.

They were here before me. 

Or I was here before them.

Either way, it shouldn't take

a fucking salon specialist

to know they don't belong

down here.

Brachiosaurus. 

Men treat me like a song 

they can't quite remember the words to.

Which is just as well.

They'd be singing it all day, those fucking crows. 

Those mouthy ravens in black

top hats.

Those pencil canes and cartoon cigars.

Try this - lip to lip, you beautiful idiot.

We'll hum our way through and no one'll know.

Not even you.

Corythosaurus. 

Younger women seem to think I've found some answer.

They watch from the shore

and reach for my ribs,

hoping I'll reveal some secret 

skin pouch.

And inside'll be bite-size bits of know-how,

harvested with a rock I only show

close friends.

Deinonychus.

Younger men, however, 

hold out their palms so I can see

the apparent use of soap AND water,

and I reward them with

white bread and string cheese,

and they smile 

and I smile,

and I know I'll be spoken of fondle-y

in therapy.
Zigongosaurus.

Kids don't think much of me, really,

but I love every one with a fraction of the seriousness

to which I love my own son.

He never washes his hands

and only pretends to brush his teeth.

But he lives for free gum

and mammals

and Twinkle Twinkle.

That is the love I understand.

That is love I house in abundance.

Any Love

Thumbing through annals

of dust covered 

ex-

lovers,

I remembered all at once

the love stylings of each one - 

Call you when I want you love.

Use God to get to know you love.

Drunk, just wanna fuck you love.

Only meant to hold you love.

Girlfriend's with her family love.

Wife doesn't understand me love.

Got time and feeling lonely love.

Could be my one and only love.

The more I saw, the more I felt

desperate for the return

of love,

Any love,

even if it's just for titles.

Cursive

We're something like cursive

me and him,

we never truly pick up the pen

just

make lines a little thinner

every now and again

thicker now,

heavy on the swoops,

our conversations,

life collisions,

yelps and yearnings, they

sort of look like giant

loops

symbols for infinity,

maybe that's more what I mean

that being said,

I feel quite certain

that while love sounds like whispers now,

in time, 

we'll learn to scream.

Blunk

It isn't healthy to stare at a blinking prompt. 

It's true. It told me so. 

Cept.

It looked less like a blinking prompt

and more like a blinking prompt

with exceptionally dirty 

glasses.

He cleans his lenses. Blink.

Stares off, then at me. Blink.

Looks at the fridge, then at me. Blink.

blinkblinkblinkblinkblinkblinkblink  

Don't you ever get tired, he says.

I didn't think blinking prompts could talk.

After all. It's usually me

who does the talking.

Usually, it's me

making heads or tails of a moment.

Fluid and flowing.

Turned on by the out-come.

But with him, I am certain

we'll never pass

inspection.

The lights will keep blinking.

Blinking.

Blink.

It isn't healthy to stare at either thing.

Lucky for me,

the avoidance is

mutual.

the Fear and the Love

I can understand the Love, I think

cos I understand 

the Fear. 

We assume lovers mean

that we might not die alone,

but we do,

always have,


and I don't understand

folks afraid of Knowing

Both.

Understanding takes the edge off.

I've stared my plot square in its hole.

Even so,

I think I held you

like I was scared of letting

go.

When I say that sex means nothing to me, 

I mean I want it or I don't want it

(but I usually want it)

and when I get it, it doesn't feel like 

I got anything

at all.

 

But I want it, so I get it

and I get it, and I get it

and even with

the ones that get me

it never feels

I've gotten much.

 

But when He says 

that sex means nothing,

he means it's nothing

so why bother.

 

And I get that

and it's prob'ly

the only thing I'll ever

get.

Catch 22 (and counting)

I am trying to explain motherhood

to a young woman terrified

of children.

She'd asked, after all. 

Rarely would I have

offered up such

information.

"I used to be terrified of little ones, too", I say.

"Now I'm just terrified 

for them"

Her eyes widen and while

she seems to understand,

It doesn't appear I've made her feel

any better.

Pablo

Pablo, you dirty ol' bean

you

lover of Spain and sweet nectar

ines,

where do you haunt when I

need you?

You'd hear the cadence of rain

ticking tocks on my window,

paradiddles forming puddles,

something about

time.

I hear instead

the whine from my dog

who'd slept all sunny 

afternoon,

and only

NOW

does he decide

it might be a good time to

poop.

Where does your heart-shaped ghost go

when I need you?

In traffic, a girl

runs briskly the other way.

You'd see a summer breeze

dragging its fingers through a field of

golden wheat.

I see instead

a traffic jam

until she makes

the corner.

Conjunctive Follow Up

Skipper fucks like he can't remember

whether the frozen pizza said

350 or

400

 

and I sort of figured he'd be

the kind to stare off 

into

space

 

and consider the true eff

iciency

of his swirly gig light 

fixtures

 

 

I don't mind so much;

I just need his junk

 

thrusting deep

questioning

 

whether he thinks

pizza is 

burning.

smooch

I have been feeling

some kind of 

way, the 

maintenance man with the 

wooden hanger shoulders, the 

angles on his hands and

one and only

chin

 

he pushes himself into me, leans 

forward, pressing his lips against

my neck where I've 

decided to let my hair grow long, 

just in case, I thought, 

you know 

 

he's calm like described surface

 

tension,

 

"hop up" he says

he means

he watches 

way too many 

dirty 

movies 

 

and rather than unstick the physic

al, rather than get into the problem with phys

ics,  

 

"Just keep your hands beneath my sand"

"Run your soft lips ship 

aground"

portrait painting of a deceased sitter

he describes a long lost beautiful moment

punctuated with tall glass commas

and pudgy jello periods

 

I don't recall it the way he recalls it

but that he recalls it at all

is nice

I guess

 

he paints me like a classical artist 

hesitant to join the 'what is form really?' movement

 

every going-gray hair looks as good up close as it does far away

but it reeks of a pastime 

I'm no longer allowed

 

"Don't you have any stories we're not drunk in?" I ask

 

but he frowns and asks me not to move,

else he'll have to start

all over

Seeds from the Fruit of the Loom

"Does he talk about me ever?"

I ask, but the silence that follows is typical.

After all, it was Me who went falling out of love with Him,

so why should I get to finger through

the dirt?

 

"Alright, you don't have to tell me that.

Can you at least tell me how the sex is for you?

He always seemed kind of bored with me.

Like he would rather have been doing

anything else."

 

I ask, but again, the silence hangs.

It's no wonder he trusts this 

slinky tee

with his secrets.

and, and, and, and, but, but, but, but

Skipper is square and breaded on all sides.

He smiles as a byproduct of speaking

and uses eye contact like a child uses

conjunctions.

 

He's nice, though.

I like his squareness.

Like I could stuff him in a locker

and swear it was made

just for him.

 

I imagine what he must be like in bed

as he asks me what I'd like to do next.

I want to take him home and see 

how far that cornered crust goes.

I want to peel the greasy parts

and get straight to the white, 

less flavorful meat.

 

I want to toss our specs in the kitchen disposal

and grind away at the things

we know we ought to want.

 

I think this as I sip my faggoty cocktail,

 

"Oh, whatever you wanna do"